American Wife by Curtis Sittenfeld

 I like her writing - if you haven't read 'Prep', I recommend that one too.  This was based on Laura Bush.  I didn't know she caused a fatal accident as a teen, (or maybe I did and forgot it).  Anyway, what part of yourself do you give up?  the part where you had convictions and ideals of your own that get forgotten or put aside for the 'good' of the marriage?